Sunday 28 March 2010

Infedelity and how it hurts the wives

http://www.mynippon.com/romance/adultery-consequences.htm
Recently in the press there has been a lot of talk about adultery. The key players lately being Ashley cole, John Terry and Tiger Woods. I think these Guys have got off light for all that they have done to their wives. Again and again these guys have gone behind their wives backs. In many cases it's not so much the sex that destroys the women it is the sense of betrayl they feel. After making a commitment of marriage the husbands have gone awol on their wedding vows, showing that they cannot be trusted. I myself am amazed at how long some of these wives allow the cheats to get away with it. Cheryl Cole has let Ashley get away with adultery many times. Finally she has seen sense and woke up to the reality, that is that her husband cannot be trusted.

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  1. http://carlospakablog.blogspot.com/

    I am responding to this person blog
    It is not letting them gate away with the situation, this might easily link to culture, religion and how the person was brought up or just luck of self esteem. Going back in the 1960s a single mother did not gain much respect in society. Even now with the women emancipation many still think that the honour and proud of a women is in her husband’s house which for many coping with the idea has lead to may psychological illness and depression. Some will argue that more often this happen to those with insecure finances or those with more children. Some other will defend they reason stating that it is for the good of the family to stick together. Moreover, is to prevent children going through the process of divorce or to protect their future. Many have thought wrong because statistic still shows that there are children growing with both parents and still misbehaviour. As children do observe and copy their parent’s behaviour, this guild of women should stop because the more the relation does not work and children suffering the pressure, this definitely will affect them and they will misbehave. I will rather say for those who accept this type of situation it is just because they do not have the courage to leave. And other does feel unsecure and start questioning themselves. As the say the more you remain in a bad situation, and that situation might start to look normal and you will get use to it; just like allowing domestic violence and other type of misconducts.

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